Family member name: Charlotte Ellen Smith Webber
Tree branch: Smith
Lifetime: 1915 - 2014
Relation: My grandmother (my dad's mom)
First name: Charlotte
There were two special Charlottes in her parents’ life. Who were they?
Special Charlotte #1: Her father’s step-grandmother: Charlotte Whitton Gould Hardy Smith
Charles Nelson Smith was my grandmother's father. His grandmother (Susan Stetson) died before he was born. But his grandfather remarried just eight months later to a widow named Charlotte Whitton Gould Hardy. According to the Hardy Family History, her first husband passed away when he was 30 years old aboard a ship bound for San Francisco when a fire destroyed the ship. This Charlotte Hardy Smith was the Smith grandmother that Charles knew from when he was born. And he grew up nearby his grandparents.
Did Charlotte treat Charles like he was her own grandchild? Did they have a special relationship?
Then in 1914, this Charlotte passed away just four months before my grandma was born. Did Charles Nelson Smith want to honor his grandmother's recent passing? If so, he may have named his daughter after her.
Special Charlotte #2: Her father's aunt: Charlotte H. Morse Gibbs
Uncle Gran (Granville Micah Gibbs) was married to Aunt Lottie (Charlotte Morse). She seemed to be a favorite among the cousins. Aunt Lottie was an expert seamstress who would make clothing for family members.
Was Aunt Lottie close with her nephew, Charles and his wife Florence? Could my grandmother be named after her great aunt?
By naming her Charlotte, they got two for the price of one!
Middle name: Ellen
According to the US Social Security Administration, Charlotte was the sixth most popular name for a baby girl in 2019. Wow, what a comeback!
Sources:
Hardy and Hardie, page 6 - A scanned online PDF file of the Hardy family history
"My Memories of the Family" - a typed paper copy in my possession written by Pearl K. (Gibbs) Thomas
New England, Select United Methodist Church Records, 1787-1922 page 60 via Ancestry.com